I believed all that rubbish for years. I met a guy in secondary school. And he said all the right things, did all the right things. And like a fool, I fell for it. I fell for him and all his lies. And even worse, I let the fucker knock me up. It wasn't until years later. YEARS. that I realized that this chap was supporting us with a whole criminal enterprise! All of it, illegal! I can't tell you how I felt when I found that out. The government took everything. Everything. Leaving me all alone to raise a son by myself. Fuck me!